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WorkLife with Adam Grant

The art of vulnerability and connection with comedian Mae Martin

Apr 30, 2024
35:07
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Comedian Mae Martin discusses the value of vulnerability in connection, overcoming procrastination, shame spirals, and life lessons from improvisation. The conversation explores the importance of audience connection in comedy, embracing 'yes, and' in interactions, childhood comedy influences, and strategies to combat procrastination.
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Quick takeaways

  • Shame serves as a protective emotion to prevent reputational damage, but often causes unnecessary distress from external standards.
  • Improvisation builds resilience and genuine connections through shared vulnerability, fostering creativity and meaningful interactions.

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Identifying the Purpose of Shame and Procrastination

Shame and procrastination are explored in the context of their evolutionary purposes. Shame is seen as a protective emotion meant to prevent reputational damage. However, individuals often feel shame about irrelevant behaviors shaped by external standards. Procrastination is attributed to avoiding negative emotions like boredom or fear, which hinder task engagement. While moderate procrastination can fuel creativity, it should be managed with substantial lead time. Overcoming shame and managing procrastination involves reframing negative beliefs and pinpointing the root causes of avoidance.

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