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Women, Men & Relationships

Ep. 65: Your Relationship Explained

Aug 28, 2018
Harville Hendrix Ph.D., renowned couple's therapist and bestselling author, discusses the importance of putting effort into improving relationships. He explores the role of the unconscious mind in shaping relationships and highlights the need for personal growth within a conscious partnership. The podcast also delves into improving communication through a dialogue process and challenges cultural norms surrounding individual identity.
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Quick takeaways

  • Embracing curiosity instead of judgment allows partners to navigate differences and foster personal and relational growth.
  • Taking responsibility for behavior change and being open to learning leads to significant transformation and deeper connection in a relationship.

Deep dives

The Power of Complementarity in Relationships

In relationships, there is a natural complementarity between partners, where each person has qualities that the other person lacks. This complementarity creates a tension for growth and allows both individuals to evolve and expand their capacities. The differences and incompatibilities in a relationship are not meant for conflict, but rather as an opportunity for personal and relational growth. By embracing curiosity instead of judgment, partners can navigate these differences and explore new ways of relating to each other. It is through intentional behavior change and openness to learning that a deeper level of connection and understanding can be achieved.

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