

Women, Men & Relationships
JJ Flizanes & Doug Sandler
Women, Men & Relationships is a show focused on love, dating, relationships, passion, sex, sexuality, divorce, marriage, self confidence, passion, communication, couple's therapy, understanding men and women and self care.
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Aug 11, 2025 • 52min
Ep. 465: The Truth About Letting Go and Letting Them
There’s a popular phrase floating around the self-help space lately: “Just let them.” Let them treat you how they want. Let them walk away. Let them show their true colors. And while that advice may sound empowering, it can actually be harmful when misunderstood. In this raw and real conversation with Christy Whitman, NYT Bestselling Author and Quantum Energy Coach, we unpack the dangerous oversimplification of the "Let Them" trend and what’s actually needed to release attachment, reclaim your energy, and create the life you truly desire. And check out http://watchyourwords.com 24 HOURS LEFT: Special 2-for-1 Offer If this conversation hits home—don’t miss this. For the next 24 hours only, you can get two powerful transformational experiences for the price of one: Becoming Magnetic – my online course to help you regulate your nervous system, release survival states, and become a vibrational match for what you desire. Unleashing Your Manifestation Power LIVE – a 3-day event in Redondo Beach, CA (October 17–19), where Christy will be with us in person leading an exclusive experience from her new book The Flow Factor. You get BOTH for the price of ONE—until the clock runs out. http://jjflizanes.com/becomingmagnetic Let’s stop pretending transformation is simple. Let’s do the work that actually creates lasting change.

Aug 5, 2025 • 22min
Ep. 464: Signs That You Live in a Survival State
If you've ever felt like you're doing everything right—visualizing, journaling, meditating—but you're still stuck in the same patterns...This week’s episode might just give you the missing piece. Before you try to "manifest harder," ask yourself these questions: · Do you constantly feel exhausted, even when you’re not doing much? · Do you keep recreating the same painful patterns—in love, in money, in health? · Do you feel like you’re always “on edge,” even when things are fine? · Do you overthink everything, or feel frozen when it’s time to act? · Do you feel disconnected from joy, play, passion, or possibility? · Do you swing between hyper-productivity and complete burnout? If you said yes to even one of those… there’s a high chance you’re living in a survival state. And when your nervous system doesn’t feel safe, it will block the very things you’re trying to attract. This episode is your invitation to start seeing manifestation through a new lens—a nervous system-informed lens. 👉 And if you're ready to do the real work, I’ve got a limited-time 2-for-1 offer: 🎁 Join Becoming Magnetic (6 week online program) AND get a free ticket to my 3-day live event in October—Unleashing Your Manifestation Power. This offer is only available until Aug 12th — and space is limited. 🔗http://jjflizanes.com/becomingmagnetic You’re not broken. You’re not lazy. You’re just stuck in a survival loop that was never meant to be permanent. Let’s break it together. 💫

Jul 29, 2025 • 1h 4min
Ep. 463: Add 13 Years to Your Life with Zero Negativity
If you’ve ever wanted to start rewiring your nervous system, heal at a deeper level, and finally align with your manifestation power—now is your moment. From August 1st–10th, I’m offering a Buy One, Get One Free special on my brand-new course: 💫 Becoming Magnetic This transformational 2-week program kicks off August 13th and was specifically designed to: Help you unlock the hidden link between your nervous system and manifestation Shift out of chronic survival states and into a regulated, parasympathetic state where your body can heal Begin the inner work needed to attract with ease instead of hustle Prepare you for the deeper breakthroughs available at my live event in October This is foundational work that will set you up to go deeper, further, and faster when you join us at: Unleashing Your Manifestation Power October 17–19, 2025 | Redondo Beach, CA And here’s the best part... When you join Becoming Magnetic now, you’ll get a FREE ticket to the October live event (a $997 value!) But don’t wait—this offer ends at midnight on August 10th, and the course begins August 13th. Let this be the moment you start aligning your nervous system, your energy, and your desires. It’s time to become magnetic. With love and excitement, JJ 💛

Jul 22, 2025 • 24min
Ep. 462: Are You Metabolically Flexible?
Have you ever said, “I think my blood sugar’s dropping—I need to eat something!” Or maybe you’ve been told you’re hypoglycemic, and now you panic when you miss a meal? ⚠️ Here’s the truth: most people who think they’re hypoglycemic… aren’t. They’re just metabolically inflexible. In this week’s podcast, I break down: ✅ What metabolic flexibility actually means✅ The myth of hypoglycemia and how it’s often misdiagnosed✅ Why eating every 2 hours is doing you more harm than good✅ And how to retrain your body to burn both glucose and fat efficiently 💥 And one more thing… TODAY is the LAST day to register for my 3-hour LIVE workshop happening tomorrow:🔓 Unlock the Link Between Your Nervous System and Manifestation We’ll go deep into how your nervous system wiring affects your ability to create, attract, and feel safe receiving what you truly want. If you’ve ever felt like you “know what to do” but can’t seem to get there—this workshop is for you. Save your spot here before midnight: http://jjflizanes.com/workshop Code JJ500 See you hopefully live tomorrow!

Jul 15, 2025 • 55min
Ep. 461: How Tuning Forks Transform Your Energy Field
Eileen Day McKusick is a researcher, writer, inventor, practitioner, educator, and speaker in the fields of therapeutic sound, the human biofield and electric health. She has been studying the effects of sound on the human body and its electrical system since 1996. Eileen is the originator of the sound therapy method Biofield Tuning, and the Founder of the Biofield Tuning Institute, which conducts peer-reviewed studies on the human biofield. She is the author of the bestselling books Tuning the Human Biofield and Electric Body, Electric Health. Unlock the Hidden Link Between Your Nervous System and Manifestation – $500 Value FREE for Podcast Listeners! What if the real reason you're stuck isn’t mindset—or even your belief system—but your nervous system? In this special episode, I’m inviting YOU to join me for a powerful 3-hour workshop that could change the way you manifest forever. ✨ Unlock the Hidden Link Between Your Nervous System and Manifestation🗓 Live on Wednesday, July 23rd at 3pm PT / 6pm ET💰 Valued at $500 – Yours FREE with code: JJ500🔗 Register now at jjflizanes.com/unlock During this immersive experience, you'll discover: · The missing piece in most manifestation teachings · Why your body might be blocking what your mind is trying to create · How to regulate your nervous system to become an energetic match for your desires · Tools and practices you can start using immediately to shift into alignment Whether you've hit a plateau in your manifestation practice or you're just beginning to explore this work, this workshop will help you go deeper and unlock what's really holding you back. Use the code JJ500 at checkout to join us completely FREE. Seats are limited, so grab yours now → jjflizanes.com/unlock

Jul 8, 2025 • 60min
Ep. 460: 3 Overlooked Factors in Healing
Unlock the Hidden Link Between Your Nervous System and Manifestation – $500 Value FREE for Podcast Listeners! What if the real reason you're stuck isn’t mindset—or even your belief system—but your nervous system? In this special episode, I’m inviting YOU to join me for a powerful 3-hour workshop that could change the way you manifest forever. ✨ Unlock the Hidden Link Between Your Nervous System and Manifestation🗓 Live on Wednesday, July 23rd at 3pm PT / 6pm ET💰 Valued at $500 – Yours FREE with code: JJ500🔗 Register now at jjflizanes.com/unlock During this immersive experience, you'll discover: · The missing piece in most manifestation teachings · Why your body might be blocking what your mind is trying to create · How to regulate your nervous system to become an energetic match for your desires · Tools and practices you can start using immediately to shift into alignment Whether you've hit a plateau in your manifestation practice or you're just beginning to explore this work, this workshop will help you go deeper and unlock what's really holding you back. Use the code JJ500 at checkout to join us completely FREE. Seats are limited, so grab yours now → jjflizanes.com/unlock

Jul 1, 2025 • 22min
Ep. 459: Why You Need to Regulate to Receive
What if the real reason your manifestations aren’t showing up has nothing to do with mindset… and everything to do with your nervous system? In this week’s powerful podcast episode, "Why You Need to Regulate to Receive," I break down how dysregulation—whether it’s subtle or extreme—can block abundance, opportunities, relationships, and intuitive guidance. You’ll hear: Why trauma patterns override your ability to attract what you want The 4 nervous system states that sabotage manifestation How to tell if you're unknowingly stuck in a survival pattern But don’t stop there. I’m inviting you to go even deeper with me in an exclusive live workshop: Unlock the Hidden Link Between Your Nervous System and Manifesting (Value: $500 — yours FREE with the code I share on the podcast) This is your chance to finally understand the missing piece most manifestation teachings skip — and get tools to shift your state so your desires can actually land. ✅ You’ll walk away with: A personalized understanding of your nervous system patterns Practical tools to regulate and raise your receiving frequency The next step to finally bring in what you’ve been calling in 🎟️ Reserve your spot here: (use the code from the podcast to attend free — normally $500)

Jun 24, 2025 • 38min
Ep. 458: Path to Confidence & Inner Peace
Get over $2000 worth of prizes and gifts tomorrow when you buy Maureen’s book on Wednesday June 25th 2025! http://jjflizanes.com/maureen Last week for Early Bird Pricing for Unleashing Your Manifestation Power http://jjflizanes.com/unleash Maureen Covinsky is a certified life coach and advocate for individuals living with hearing loss. After navigating her own journey of emotional healing and self-empowerment, she now helps others overcome the limitations of disability, perfectionism, and people-pleasing to live with confidence and clarity. She is the author of My Voice Beyond Hearing Loss: How I Discovered Confidence, Freedom, and Inner Peace, a powerful memoir and guide for anyone ready to reclaim their voice and thrive on their own terms. http://hear2hearu.com JJ Flizanes is an Empowerment Strategist and the creator of the Empowering Minds Network. JJ Flizanes works with conscious, spiritual truth seekers who want to remove emotional blocks to success. She helps people identify sabotaging patterns and transmute struggle into joy. Through a series of clarifying exercises, she is able to curate a personalized roadmap to emotional healing. JJ is passionate about empowering people with the knowledge and awareness of how they can live the life of their dreams. She is the Director of Invisible Fitness, a best-selling author of Fit 2 Love: How to Get Physically, Emotionally, and Spiritually Fit to Attract the Love of Your Life and The Invisible Fitness Formula: 5 Secrets to Release Weight and End Body Shame. Named Best Personal Trainer in Los Angeles for 2007 by Elite Traveler Magazine, JJ has been featured in many national magazines, including Shape, Fitness, and Women’s Health as well as appeared on NBC, CBS, Fox, the CW and KTLA. Learn more http://jjflizanes.com

Jun 17, 2025 • 46min
Ep. 457: The Science of Sound Baths
Early Bird Pricing for Unleashing Your Manifestation Power http://jjflizanes.com/unleash Kristin White is a certified sound healer and the founder of White Light Sounds, where she blends crystal bowls, vibrational frequencies, and intuitive energy work to create powerful sound bath experiences. With a deep commitment to healing through sound, Kristin helps individuals calm the nervous system, release emotional blocks, and return to a state of inner harmony and alignment. Get $200 off her Sound Bath Academy Course http://jjflizanes.com/soundbath JJ Flizanes is an Empowerment Strategist and the creator of the Empowering Minds Network. JJ Flizanes works with conscious, spiritual truth seekers who want to remove emotional blocks to success. She helps people identify sabotaging patterns and transmute struggle into joy. Through a series of clarifying exercises, she is able to curate a personalized roadmap to emotional healing. JJ is passionate about empowering people with the knowledge and awareness of how they can live the life of their dreams. She is the Director of Invisible Fitness, a best-selling author of Fit 2 Love: How to Get Physically, Emotionally, and Spiritually Fit to Attract the Love of Your Life and The Invisible Fitness Formula: 5 Secrets to Release Weight and End Body Shame. Named Best Personal Trainer in Los Angeles for 2007 by Elite Traveler Magazine, JJ has been featured in many national magazines, including Shape, Fitness, and Women’s Health as well as appeared on NBC, CBS, Fox, the CW and KTLA. Learn more http://jjflizanes.com

Jun 10, 2025 • 33min
Ep. 456: Why You're Not Broken
Early Bird Pricing for Unleashing Your Manifestation Power http://jjflizanes.com/unleash JJ Flizanes is an Empowerment Strategist and the creator of the Empowering Minds Network. JJ Flizanes works with conscious, spiritual truth seekers who want to remove emotional blocks to success. She helps people identify sabotaging patterns and transmute struggle into joy. Through a series of clarifying exercises, she is able to curate a personalized roadmap to emotional healing. JJ is passionate about empowering people with the knowledge and awareness of how they can live the life of their dreams. She is the Director of Invisible Fitness, a best-selling author of Fit 2 Love: How to Get Physically, Emotionally, and Spiritually Fit to Attract the Love of Your Life and The Invisible Fitness Formula: 5 Secrets to Release Weight and End Body Shame. Named Best Personal Trainer in Los Angeles for 2007 by Elite Traveler Magazine, JJ has been featured in many national magazines, including Shape, Fitness, and Women’s Health as well as appeared on NBC, CBS, Fox, the CW and KTLA. Learn more http://jjflizanes.com