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Healing From Rejection, Racism, And Betrayal (with Roy Kim)
Oct 16, 2023
Roy Kim, a licensed marriage and family therapist, shares his journey from rejection to pornography and his struggle with porn as a pastor and male betrayed partner. He discusses the impact of racism and the lack of resources for men who have been cheated on. Roy also explores finding identity and security in relationships and the liberating power of freedom from porn.
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- Rejection and internalized racism fueled Roy Kim's addiction to pornography as a coping mechanism.
- Roy Kim emphasizes the importance of honesty, self-compassion, and finding a supportive community in the healing process of addiction and betrayal.
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Roy Kim's Journey of Addiction and Betrayal
Roy Kim, a former pastor and certified sex addiction therapist, shares his personal story of developing an attachment to porn as a coping mechanism. Growing up Korean American, he experienced a sense of otherness and internalized racism, leading to rejection and self-hatred. He candidly discusses his addiction and being betrayed by his wife. Roy's unique therapy approach includes using Lego figures to bring his story to life. He highlights the importance of honesty, self-compassion, and finding a supportive community in the healing process.
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