Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Getting Robbed by Hookups (w/ Lushious Massacr)

Jan 9, 2026
Lushious Massacr, an Emmy-winning drag performer and makeup artist, dives into her wild dating adventures, including falling for a man from Facebook Dating and her ban from Tinder for alleged impersonation. She hilariously recounts her encounters with panty sniffers and how she's learned to 'trade proof' her home after being robbed post-hookup. Lushious shares her theory on how pegging could promote world peace and explores the power of femininity in attracting love and confidence. Tune in for laughs, wisdom, and a touch of drag magic!
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ANECDOTE

Home Theft Turned Violent Stand

  • Lushious Massacr recounts a man trying to steal her TV and her breaking a wine bottle on his head to stop him.
  • He ran out bleeding after the confrontation and she dared him to try again.
ANECDOTE

Panties Taken As Keepsake

  • Lushious described meeting a man on Facebook Dating who loved-bombed her and even asked to take her underwear.
  • She gave him her panties and said it made her feel desired.
INSIGHT

Feminine Presentation Increases Value

  • Lushious says presenting feminine increases desirability and power compared with presenting as a man.
  • She explains gay dating often devalues feminine or larger bodies despite chemistry potential.
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