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Sexual assault, shame and teaching kids to ask for help | Kristin Jones

Oct 24, 2020
In this engaging discussion, Kristin Jones, a passionate advocate and survivor of teenage sexual abuse, shares her journey of overcoming shame. She emphasizes that sexual assault is never the victim's fault and urges parents to create safe spaces for open conversations about abuse. Kristin highlights the importance of teaching children about consent and responsibility, aiming to empower future generations. Her insights illuminate how societal perceptions of shame can be transformed to foster resilience and understanding in our youth.
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ANECDOTE

Kristin's Story

  • Kristin Jones kept her sexual assault a secret from her mother for 22 years.
  • Driven by shame, she strived for perfection in other areas to overcompensate.
INSIGHT

Shame's Impact

  • Shame drives overcompensation, as seen in Kristin Jones' pursuit of a perfect life.
  • Sexual abuse fosters shame as it violates personal bodily autonomy.
ADVICE

Reframing Conversations

  • Avoid telling children "Don't let anyone touch you," as it places undue responsibility on them.
  • Frame discussions about body autonomy and safety without implying children control adult actions.
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