The Dr. John Delony Show

My Wife Brags to Friends About Her Past Sex Life

Mar 3, 2025
A husband grapples with his wife's hurtful comments about her past, raising questions of trust and communication. A woman seeks boundaries with a friend struggling with alcoholism, highlighting the emotional complexities of addiction. Meanwhile, a mom finds herself awake at night, reflecting on parenting's impact on mental health. The conversation also touches on the significance of openness in relationships and the necessity of self-care amidst the chaos of motherhood. Engaging insights blend humor and heartfelt advice throughout.
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ANECDOTE

Wife's Past Sex Life

  • Jesse, married for 20 years, found messages where his wife bragged about her past sex life to coworkers.
  • He felt hurt and insecure, unsure how to handle the situation.
ADVICE

Acknowledge the Past

  • Dr. John Delony advises Jesse to acknowledge his wife's past and not pretend it didn't happen.
  • He suggests Jesse address his own insecurity and embarrassment about his wife's past.
ADVICE

Communicate with "I" Statements

  • Dr. Delony recommends Jesse communicate his feelings of insecurity to his wife using "I" statements.
  • He suggests Jesse express how his wife's bragging makes him feel less than.
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