Pillow Talks Episode 143: The Body Confidence Episode - How To Feel Good In Your Skin During Sex
Feb 15, 2024
Explore the impact of negative body image on sex, including personal experiences and techniques for overcoming insecurities. Delve into the perception of penis size and the influence of societal pressure. Discover the relationship between body image and sexual desire, and the importance of verbalizing our body thoughts.
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Gender Gap In Body Self‑Consciousness
- Women report far higher rates of body self-consciousness during sex than men, with 53% of women vs 21% of men feeling it regularly or more.
- This gender gap suggests deep socialization differences that shape sexual presence and comfort.
Different Body Worries By Gender
- Women listed many body concerns during sex, with stomach and overall weight topping the list; men mainly named penis size.
- This contrast highlights different culturally driven body anxieties between genders.
Observation Versus Judgment
- Men notice bodily details during sex but rarely judge them; they observe without the self-critical lens women often use.
- This distinction reduces partner judgment but doesn't erase women's internalized scrutiny.