Discover the 10 essential items for a sober toolkit including tech, support, treats, tracking progress, community, safe space, movement, routine, and coaching. Learn how these tools can guide you on your alcohol-free journey in a drinking-centric society.
To succeed in sobriety, ensure access to tools like audiobooks and non-alcoholic beverages for cravings.
Engage in community support and self-care practices like walking to maintain a healthy and balanced sober lifestyle.
Deep dives
Building a Life without Alcohol
To create a fulfilling life without alcohol as a coping mechanism, key strategies include having daily tools for emotional management and resisting societal pressures to drink; seeking support through resources like books, podcasts, and online communities; ensuring a stocked supply of non-alcoholic beverages and snacks to curb cravings; and engaging in self-care practices like creating a calming space at home, getting regular exercise, and establishing a new evening routine.
Utilizing Resources and Support
Accessing resources like podcasts, audiobooks, and online groups can provide crucial encouragement and guidance for staying sober. Investigating various tools such as essential oils, therapy apps, and physical activities like walking or yoga can enhance one's sober toolkit. Building a community of supportive individuals who understand the journey can offer invaluable assistance and camaraderie on the path to sobriety.
Embracing Healthy Habits
Incorporating healthy habits into daily life is essential for sobriety, including practicing self-care routines, exploring new interests, and prioritizing physical and mental well-being. Tracking progress, setting achievable goals, and celebrating milestones can boost motivation and reinforce positive behaviors. Establishing a safe and nurturing space at home, developing a new evening routine, and engaging in activities that promote relaxation and joy are fundamental components of a healthy and balanced lifestyle free from alcohol.
Sobriety as a Transformative Journey
Embarking on the journey to sobriety involves building a personal toolkit tailored to individual needs and preferences. By embracing a variety of strategies such as community support, healthy coping mechanisms, and self-care practices, individuals can navigate challenges, overcome cravings, and create a fulfilling life without relying on alcohol. Recognizing the value of a supportive network, self-discovery, and continuous growth can propel individuals towards long-lasting sobriety and overall well-being.
Once you’ve decided that it’s time to take a break from drinking you need to set yourself up for success.
That means you need a really good sober toolkit.
In this episode, I’ll share 10 things you absolutely need in your sober toolkit:
Your iPhone. And that includes your earbuds and your charger.
Audiobooks, podcasts and messages of sober support.
Food and beverages that will help you get through a craving, help you during the witching hour, and make you feel satisfied and a bit indulged.
A list of your favorite “sober treats”. Bubble baths, fresh flowers, baked goods, a new book, a list of binge-worthy shows, coloring books, a massage, a pedicure, take out sushi, new sheets, essential oils, a milkshake, a bike ride, a picnic, a
The ability to move, to be outside, get some fresh air and take a walk. Anytime you want to drink, feel frustrated, resentful or angry, it helps to get moving.
Create a new evening routine.
Sober coaching. I know this sounds self-serving but I want to be clear that this doesn’t have to be one-on-one coaching and it doesn’t have to be with me. But it does really help to know that you’re not the first woman who has decided that drinking isn’t working in your life - and there are coaches, sponsors, programs and resources out there that can give you short cuts, tips and advice to make this “living life without alcohol thing” so much easier!