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The Art of Dating | Prof. Michael Foley

Feb 13, 2025
Michael Foley, a Catholic theologian and Professor of Patristics at Baylor University, delves into the art of dating. He discusses the evolution of dating norms post-sexual revolution, highlighting the confusion it has brought to modern relationships. Foley offers practical advice on navigating the complexities introduced by social media, emphasizing authentic connections. He redefines breakups as learning experiences and stresses the importance of honor in relationships, framing them as valuable journeys of discernment.
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  • Dating is an art that requires learning and practice, emphasizing the importance of glorifying God through genuine connections.
  • Contemporary dating challenges arise from social media and pornography, complicating authentic relationships and altering traditional dynamics.

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Dating as an Art

Dating is considered an art that requires learning and practice to be done well, ultimately giving glory to God. The speaker emphasizes that while every generation feels unique in their dating experiences, fundamental human attractions remain unchanged over time. He addresses how the sexual revolution of the 1960s significantly altered dating norms, leading to a loss of established rules and rituals that once guided interactions between men and women. Ironically, rather than achieving freedom, this shift has created confusion and paralysis regarding dating dynamics, as individuals struggle to navigate these uncharted waters.

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