Relationship Mistakes & How to Love Better with Yung Pueblo

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Mar 11, 2025

Yung Pueblo, the author of "How to Love Better," brings a fresh perspective on relationships. He discusses how attachment can disguise itself as love, emphasizing that true connection requires emotional flexibility. The conversation highlights the significance of personal growth and kindness as essential traits in partners. They touch on how social media can distort relationship expectations and stress the importance of balancing freedom and connection for healthy partnerships. This insightful dialogue provides practical wisdom for nurturing more fulfilling relationships.

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Attachment and Freedom

Letting go of attachments increases freedom in relationships.
Lessening attachments increases your partner's freedom as well.

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Meditation's Impact

Yung Pueblo's meditation practice has significantly improved his life and relationships.
He considers meditation his best investment.

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Green Flags in Relationships

Look for growth, kindness, and compassion in a partner.
These green flags indicate a healthier relationship.

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In this episode, Yung Pueblo discusses relationship mistakes and how to love better. He explores how attachments can masquerade as love and how true connection requires flexibility, and shares this powerful insight: attachment is just a deep form of inflexibility—it can look like love, but it’s often about control. Diego also delves into why growth, kindness, and compassion are green flags in a partner, and how to advocate for personal needs without clinging too tightly to rigid expectations. This insightful discussion offers practical wisdom for anyone looking to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

Key Takeaways:

Attachment vs. Love – Attachment can often masquerade as love, but it’s really a deep form of inflexibility and control. True love allows for freedom and growth.
The Power of Emotional Flexibility – Our ability to adapt, shift perspectives, and embrace change is essential for healthy relationships.
The Role of Personal Growth in Love – Your relationship is only as strong as your willingness to grow. When both partners prioritize self-awareness, connection deepens.
Kindness and Humility as Green Flags – Instead of looking for perfection in a partner, look for their willingness to grow, their kindness in difficult moments, and their ability to see beyond their own perspective.
The Danger of Comparison – Social media can create unrealistic expectations in relationships. Instead of comparing, focus on what truly matters in your connection.
Balancing Freedom and Commitment – Love thrives when we allow each other to change and evolve while staying committed to the relationship.

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