The Art of Accomplishment Speaking Authentically with Tristan de Montebello
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Apr 6, 2024 
Tristan de Montebello, founder of Ultraspeaking, focuses on communication and self-discovery. He discusses the liberating power of releasing ego, which enhances personal growth and public speaking. Tristan shares insights on authentic self-expression, navigating the tension between fitting in and standing out. They delve into emotional experiences, flow states, and the importance of real-life practice in speaking. Finally, understanding personal backstories is highlighted as essential for deepening connections and refining communication skills.
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The Root of Communication Struggles
- Humans inherently want to fit in, stemming from an evolutionary need to avoid isolation and death.
- This desire to fit in often leads to masking and filtering true selves in different social environments.
Naturals vs. Others in Speaking
- Tristan de Montebello observes two types of speakers: "naturals" and others.
- Naturals are those who enjoy the experience of speaking, regardless of skill, and seek more opportunities.
Building Speaking Confidence
- To build genuine confidence in speaking, practice in environments that mirror real-life scenarios.
- Focus on the "flow state" where words are discovered as you speak, forgetting self-consciousness.