

Say More - Esther Perel on Fantasy with Gillian Anderson
110 snips Nov 18, 2024
Join award-winning actress Gillian Anderson, known for her captivating roles in 'The X-Files' and 'Sex Education', as she delves into the world of women's erotic fantasies. She and Esther explore how these fantasies reveal deep emotional and psychological desires, often influenced by personal history and societal norms. They also discuss the empowering aspects of BDSM, especially for postmenopausal women, and highlight the importance of open conversations about sexuality to foster intimacy and personal acceptance. A fascinating journey into desire and self-discovery!
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Fantasy's True Nature
- Fantasies are more than just sexual scripts; they reveal deeper emotional and psychological truths.
- They express coded desires, fears, and aspirations, going beyond simple sexual wants.
Fantasy as Problem Solver
- Fantasies offer solutions to real-life problems, like insecurity or difficulty asserting needs.
- A fantasy where someone anticipates your desires can address the struggle of asking for what you want.
Exploring Fantasies
- Explore different fantasies to discover what resonates with you.
- Treat it like a buffet, sampling various themes to identify what sparks arousal or curiosity.