389: Why You Keep Settling For Less In Love And How To Attract The Love You Deserve

Mar 18, 2025

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“Love is not something you get. Love is what you are.”

Are you tired of settling for less in love? Do you keep attracting the same unfulfilling relationships, wondering why true love feels just out of reach? What if the problem isn’t out there but within you?

In this episode of Soul Talk, I’m sharing insights the truth about why we settle in relationships and, more importantly, how to break free once and for all.

You’ll discover the hidden fears and subconscious beliefs that keep you stuck, why love is always a mirror of your inner world, and the powerful mindset shifts that will help you attract the epic love you truly deserve.

No more excuses. No more settling. It’s time to reclaim your worth, set non-negotiable standards, and become magnetic to the love that’s waiting for you.

Listen to this episode and learn how to stop settling, start choosing yourself, and attract the love you were meant for.

Timestamps:

(00:04:53) - The importance of self awareness in breaking toxic relationship patterns.
(00:08:25) - Fear of being alone vs true self worth.
(00:11:40) - Recognizing the lies you tell yourself about love.
(00:14:39) - Learning to embrace solitude as a path to empowerment.
(00:18:39) - Setting boundaries and recognizing red flags.
(00:20:54) - Becoming magnetic to love.
(00:23:39) - The necessity of inner work to attract the right partner.

Some Questions I Ask:

Why do we settle for less in love?
What fears are keeping you in unfulfilling relationships?
How does your relationship mirror your inner self?
Do you like what you see in the relationships you attract?
What lies have you been telling yourself to avoid facing reality?

In This Episode You Will Learn:

How to Uncover the hidden fears and beliefs keeping you stuck in unfulfilling relationships.
Keys in understanding how your love life reflects your self-worth and past wounds.
How to stop attracting emotionally unavailable partners and start embracing self love.
How to set boundaries and attract a relationship that truly honors you.
How to Become Magnetic to True Love and step into the love you deserve.
Why deep, lasting love demands inner growth and personal evolution.

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