272: [Soapbox] Escapting the sexual avoidance cycle

In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman delves into the sexual avoidance cycle, a term she coined to describe a common issue in intimate relationships. She explains how negative experiences and unmet expectations lead to avoidance, creating a cycle of increasing pressure and anxiety around sex. Jessa discusses various factors that contribute to this cycle, such as personal insecurities, relationship conflicts, and external life stressors. She emphasizes the importance of challenging unrealistic expectations, addressing negative feelings, and communicating openly with one's partner to break free from this cycle and enhance intimate relationships.

00:00 Welcome to Better Sex

00:50 Introduction to the Sexual Avoidance Cycle

01:17 Understanding the Cycle

05:36 Factors Contributing to the Cycle

08:16 Challenging Expectations and Breaking the Cycle

09:49 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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