

Fantasy vs. Reality - Secrets & Exhibitionism
Aug 25, 2025
57:14
In this episode of Evolving Love 2.0, Abbey and Liam explore where they sit on the spectrum between swinging and polyamory. From loud neighbours and exhibitionist fantasies to navigating crushes, labels, and compersion, they dive into the playful, messy, and honest realities of non-monogamy after more than a decade together.
They also share why “relationship by design” is central to their lives, and how fantasy and reality often intersect in surprising ways.
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Friday 10th October, NFSA, Canberra
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