BetterMan Podcast

Secret Strength: The Discipline of Withdrawing

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Jun 5, 2023
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ANECDOTE

Untethered For Four Days

  • Chris Harper turned his phone off for four days at a men's withdrawing retreat and felt unexpected anxiety and boredom.
  • He discovered he rarely simply sits and thinks, which made the experience convicting and illuminating.
INSIGHT

Third Space Can Become Unhealthy

  • Ray Oldenburg's 'third space' concept shows where men withdraw outside home and work, and it can be unhealthy.
  • Many men retreat into garages, bars, or basements, turning a third space into an escape rather than renewal.
ADVICE

Pick A Safe Withdrawal Place

  • Choose a withdrawal place with few distractions and limited room for temptation to protect your purpose of reconnecting with God.
  • Avoid places that feed your sin patterns, like bars or tempting basements, when you need spiritual renewal.
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