

Episode 407: How Men Can Become Better Lovers
6 snips Jun 20, 2025
Join Caitlin V, a renowned sex and relationship coach with a massive online following, as she provides actionable tips for men to enhance their skills as lovers. Discover how to build sexual confidence, shift focus from performance to pleasure, and why changing your masturbation habits can lead to better partnered experiences. Caitlin also emphasizes the art of communication and understanding desires for deeper intimacy. Learn the importance of vulnerability in confidence-building and practical techniques to master the art of touch.
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Sexual Confidence Defined
- Sexual confidence is a grounded awareness of what you know and don't know, and your ability to work through it.
- Confidence stems from having the tools, resources, and communication skills to create desired sexual experiences.
Build Sexual Confidence Stepwise
- Assess your true starting point honestly, seeing if your confidence gap is real or from comparison.
- Address physical, mental, emotional, communication, and energetic areas step-by-step to build genuine confidence.
Performance Pressure and Man Box
- Men face pressure to constantly prove masculinity through sex, leading to performance anxiety.
- Sex is just one part of pleasure, yet men often pressure it to fulfill masculinity and emotional security.