everybody has a secret 'am I destroying my dating life?'
Jun 26, 2025
Producer Rubes shares a hilarious solo night in Paris, sparking reflections on modern relationships. The discussion dives into the challenges of being friend-zoned and navigating feelings of inadequacy. Listeners are reminded that dating struggles are universal. Flirting dynamics are debated, pondering if they’re learned or innate. The importance of vulnerability and self-care is highlighted, as the hosts share personal growth and insights on maintaining authenticity while seeking love.
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Paris Bar Proposition Story
- Producer Ruby Hall shares a Paris bar encounter where an older woman, Maria, reveals she and her husband cheat on each other and later propositions Ruby.
- Ruby felt the encounter was respectful, surprising, and added excitement to her trip in Paris.
Rosie's Friend-Zoned Dating Life
- Listener Rosie shares she's in her mid-30s, has never been in a relationship, and continuously gets friend-zoned despite many dates.
- She worries she's ruining her dating life because she doesn't flirt much and is unsure if she should change her personality.
Be Authentic on Dates
- Be yourself on dates and build a foundation of friendship first, as it can evolve into romance.
- Don't change your personality to flirt; your authentic self will be appreciated by the right person.