Two Guys on Your Head dives into the psychology of change, discussing the fundamental attribution error and how language can shape perceptions. They explore the relationship between behavior and identity, urging reflection for meaningful change.
Behaviors shape perceptions more than fixed traits in personal identity.
Focusing on actions over labels facilitates personal growth and change.
Deep dives
The Origin of Adjectives Based on Behavior
Adjectives used to describe individuals, like 'kind' or 'trustworthy,' are often derived from observable behaviors rather than inherent traits. By repeatedly performing kind actions, a person becomes labeled as kind. This concept challenges the idea of fixed character traits, emphasizing the role of actions in shaping perceptions of individuals.
Avoiding Noun Labels to Promote Change
Treating behaviors as verbs rather than nouns can facilitate personal growth and change. By focusing on actions rather than fixed labels, individuals can actively cultivate new behaviors and characteristics. This approach rejects the notion of inherent essence associated with nouns, allowing for a more flexible and optimistic view of personal development.
Many psychological elements go into the idea of changing or remaking oneself, so Two Guys on Your Head, Dr. Art Markman, and Dr. Bob Duke decided to record a series on the psychology of change. Our third and final episode delves into the words we use to describe ourselves and others and why and how they matter.