Jocko Podcast The Debrief w/ Jocko and Dave Berke #17: Calculating How Often You Should Argue With The People Around You
May 17, 2021
Discover how to navigate workplace disagreements with finesse. The hosts delve into the art of constructive pushback, highlighting the importance of healthy communication. They discuss fostering resilience in teams and the vital role positivity plays in overcoming challenges. Dive into the parallels between chess strategies and leadership skills, emphasizing emotional detachment in high-pressure situations. The conversation also touches on the complexities of communication and the regrets tied to both action and inaction in leadership.
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Calculate Arguments
- Calculate how often you should argue with people around you, starting with "never".
- Consider the potential risks and negative consequences before pushing back on ideas.
Avoid Unknown Commitments
- Avoid committing to the unknown, especially in leadership and planning.
- Don't waste leadership capital on arguing about unpredictable future events.
Questioning over Arguing
- Instead of directly pushing back, ask clarifying questions to understand others' perspectives.
- This approach fosters collaboration and allows for course correction without damaging relationships.