Explore the intriguing world of chastity play and the essentials of penis cage safety. Discover tips for easing a partner into anal rimming, addressing masculinity myths, and fostering open communication. Dive into the challenges of mismatched libidos and the journey of reclaiming sexuality after divorce, with practical advice on solo pleasures and exploring new dynamics. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding our bodies and fostering connection beyond the bedroom.
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Ease Into Anal Rimming
Shower together or try after a shower to reduce hygiene concerns around anal rimming.
Talk outside the bedroom about specific worries and what would make him feel safe and turned on.
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Preferences Aren't Orientation
Sexual preferences don't determine orientation and cultural myths block exploration.
Many straight men avoid prostate or anal play due to false links between play and sexual identity.
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Chastity Cage Safety Rules
Measure cages properly, check materials, shave to avoid hair pulling, and inspect for bruises or discoloration.
Remove for cleaning and if you see persistent pain, blueness, or bleeding and seek medical attention.
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily and producer Erica answer listener questions covering intimate challenges from anal play to mismatched libidos.
The episode addresses a woman whose boyfriend wants to try receiving anal rimming but can't relax into it, examining masculinity myths around pleasure. They cover penis cage safety during chastity play and what to watch for during extended use. Listeners also hear from a woman whose partner never initiates sex despite therapy, someone experiencing numbness during oral sex, and a recently divorced woman struggling to reclaim her sex drive.
Throughout, Emily emphasizes communication outside the bedroom, understanding our bodies' responses, and reclaiming sexuality as something we own for ourselves—not something tied exclusively to our partners.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
1:15 - Helping Your Partner Feel Comfortable with Anal Play
6:38 - Penis Cage Safety & Chastity Play Guidelines
13:49 - When Your Partner Never Initiates Sex
18:45 - Numbness & Tingling During Oral Sex Explained
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