137. What's Your Frame For Relationship Anarchy? with Tuck Malloy

On today's episode, we have Tuck Malloy (They/Them) join us for a conversation exploring the practice of relationship anarchy. Together we talk about choosing which feedback we integrate into our narratives, how much discomfort is too much discomfort in nonmonogamy, and the blank white canvas of relationship anarchy.

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Tuck Malloy (they/them) is a queer, trans, polyamorous relationship coach and sex educator.

Website : https://intrasensual.com

Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/intra_sensual/

Resources to Learn More:

How Love Conquered Marriage : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9780143036678

Relationship Anarchy Occupy : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9798368039442

BDSM related fantasies were found to be common (40-70%) in both males and females :https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2019.1665619#:~:text=BDSM%20related%20fantasies%20were%20found,20%25%20reported%20engaging%20in%20BDSM.⁠

69% of the general population had fantasies about BDSM-related activities : ⁠https://academic.oup.com/smoa/article/7/2/129/6956474⁠⁠