The Libido Fairy Podcast #102: What To Do When It's "Been A While" Since You Had Sex
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Aug 13, 2025 Delve into the complexities of intimacy with candid insights on rekindling connection after a dry spell. Explore effective strategies to break the silence and embrace vulnerability in relationships. Personal anecdotes highlight the importance of open communication, while emphasizing intentionality in sexual connections. Discover how to navigate the challenges of intimacy with confidence and creativity.
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Sex Professionals Also Have Dry Spells
- Hannah shares that even as a sex coach she experiences seasons where intimacy naturally wanes.
- Current factors like travel and timing created a longer-than-usual gap in her relationship.
Avoid The Avoidance Loop
- Pressure and making up stories about your partner erodes desire and creates avoidance loops.
- The longer you avoid intimacy, the bigger the fear becomes and the harder it is to reconnect.
Talk It Out And Schedule An Intimacy Date
- Bring up the issue openly and ask your partner how they feel instead of making assumptions.
- Schedule a specific time to connect intimately so it doesn't keep getting postponed.