Our listener this week shares how she felt manipulated and silenced by her adoptive mother, describing how even her father's death was weaponised against her. Now she's no contact and struggling to speak up in her current relationships, she asks how she can begin to repair the lingering wounds of her childhood.  

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•⁠  ⁠Do you hate saying no? •⁠  ⁠⁠Do you avoid conflict at all costs? •⁠  ⁠⁠Do you never feel good enough? •⁠  ⁠⁠Do you feel like a burden? •⁠  ⁠⁠Do you find it hard to ask for help… •⁠  ⁠…⁠but do everything for everyone else? •⁠  ⁠⁠Do you struggle to identify and hold boundaries? 

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