Modern Wisdom

#645 - Emily Morse - Why Is Everyone Having Such Bad Sex?

Jun 24, 2023

Emily Morse, a renowned sexologist and host of "Sex with Emily," dives into the complexities of modern intimacy. She discusses the decline in sexual activity among younger generations, exploring the societal pressures and shame surrounding sex. Emily outlines her five pillars of sexual intelligence and highlights the importance of communication in relationships. She also addresses how birth control affects sexual satisfaction, the challenges women face with orgasms, and practical tips for enhancing intimacy, ultimately advocating for pleasure and openness.

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Emily Morse

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Quick takeaways

Discussing intimacy openly is crucial for maintaining a healthy love life.

Regular physical touch and connection through sex contribute to increased happiness and life satisfaction.

Effective communication with a partner about desires enhances relationship satisfaction and mutual understanding.

Deep dives

Sex Habits and Trends in Modern Relationships

People in relationships are having the same amount of sex as previous generations, while younger generations are having less. This trend highlights the significance of discussing intimacy openly to maintain a healthy love life. Research shows that sexual activity mainly occurs within relationships, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing intimacy and connection.

What Women Want in the Bedroom: Slowness, Intentionality, and Compliments

01:29

Impact of Birth Control on Sexual Satisfaction and Attraction in Relationships

01:20

The Biology of Love: From Honeymoon Phase to Keeping It Hot

01:40

The Importance of Mindfulness During Sex

01:04

Intro

4min

Redefining Sexual Connection in Modern Society

16min

Navigating Sexual Excitement and Connection

13min

The Impact of Birth Control on Sexual Satisfaction and Attraction

3min

Navigating Intimacy Through Communication

21min

Understanding Female Orgasm: Challenges and Factors

2min

Understanding Sexual Comfort and Mindfulness

3min

Emily Morse is a sexologist, author, and host of the podcast “Sex with Emily”.

In a sex-positive world, bedroom activities are still considered a taboo subject. And intimacy isn't at the forefront of everyone's minds right now, but having a good love life is important for your physical and psychological health, so I guess we need to hear from an expert.

Expect to learn why people are having less sex than previous generations, why we feel shame when talking about sex and how to get over it, what you can do to stop things getting repetitive in the bedroom, the 5 pillars that makes up Emily’s Sex IQ, the most common challenges people are facing when it comes to talking about intimacy with their partner, the 3 T’s of communication for progressing your love life and much more...

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