Squiggly Careers #483 Ask the Expert: How to have better conversations with Jefferson Fisher
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Jun 10, 2025 
Jefferson Fisher, a lawyer, speaker, and author of 'The Next Conversation,' shares insights on enhancing communication skills. He delves into navigating tricky conversations, managing interruptions, and adapting to different conversational styles. Jefferson highlights the importance of self-advocacy and reframing people-pleasing as a strength to foster deeper connections. Listeners will learn practical strategies for clarity and confidence in difficult dialogues, ultimately transforming their professional interactions into more meaningful exchanges.
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Dealing With Interruptions
- Let someone interrupt you once and listen, as they likely weren’t going to hear you anyway.
- If they interrupt repeatedly, use their name and say, "I can’t hear you when you interrupt me," to regain control politely.
Manage Conflict With Breath and Clarity
- Use your breath to calm nerves in conflicts and give yourself time to respond.
- Clarify your value and the purpose of the conversation to reduce discomfort and uncertainty in conflict avoidance.
Frame Conversations Clearly
- Frame tough conversations by stating the topic and the desired outcome upfront.
- Gain agreement on this frame to reduce anxiety and increase clarity.
