How Every Man and Woman Can Find Total Victory in Sexual Purity, With Fred Stoeker
Sep 13, 2023
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Fred Stoeker, author of Battle On, Battle Over: How Every Man and Woman Can Find Permanent and Total Victory in Sexual Purity, discusses the challenge for men to become sexually pure. They explore alarming statistics and vulnerabilities of porn consumption in men and women. They also talk about the impact of romantic storytelling and false intimacy on women in the pornography space. Fred Stoeker shares information on his new book and emphasizes accountability.
Fred Stoeker's book, Battle on Battle Over, provides practical steps for both men and women to achieve permanent victory in sexual purity.
The book addresses the vulnerability of women's sexuality and the importance of open conversation to break free from false intimacy and unrealistic expectations.
Deep dives
Practical Steps for Overcoming Sexual Sin
Fred Stoker's book, Every Man's Battle, has been highly regarded in churches and men's ministries. It offers practical steps to help men overcome porn addiction and sexual sin, giving them a path to win the battle. The book has been well-received by pastors and leaders who acknowledge spending a significant amount of their counseling time on this issue. The practical nature of the book provides guidance for men to overcome their struggles, allowing them to step up into leadership roles within the church and ultimately leading to church growth.
Freedom and Victory in Sexual Purity
Fred Stoker's latest book, Battle on Battle Over, aims to provide permanent and total victory in sexual purity for both men and women. The subtitle of the book emphasizes the possibility of finding permanent freedom. Stoker shares his own journey of overcoming sexual sin, highlighting the importance of both spiritual reliance on Christ and the willingness to put in the necessary work to break free from addictive behaviors. The book addresses the increasing statistics of porn consumption among both men and women, offering practical insights on how to safeguard oneself against vulnerabilities and achieve true and lasting freedom.
The Impact of Romance on Porn Addiction
The podcast episode delves into the topic of how women get hooked into pornography. It discusses the phenomenon of romantic storylines intertwined with pornographic material, such as erotica novels or films like 50 Shades of Grey. Fred Stoker explains the chemical reactions in the brain that occur during self-gratification, which can lead to addiction for both men and women. The book Battle on Battle Over addresses the second vulnerability in women's sexuality and the importance of understanding and addressing it. Stoker emphasizes the need for honesty, forthrightness, and open conversation about this issue to provide support, give hope, and help individuals break free from false intimacy and unrealistic expectations.
In this episode, we visit with Fred Stocker, author of Battle On, Battle Over: How Every Man and Woman Can Find Permanent and Total Victory in Sexual Purity, about:
The challenge for men to become sexually pure and to reconnect in intimate relationships with their wives.
The hard losses and mounting setbacks that many people have to work through.
The frank and honest approach this book takes and how it differs from other messages out there.
The joy of writing a book together with his wife, Brenda.