Solo – The Single Person’s Guide to a Remarkable Life Masculinity and Manhood
Jun 17, 2025
David Jatendernot, a tech professional and writer recently navigating life post-divorce, and Kerr Shireman, an adventurous lifelong bachelor, join for a lively discussion on masculinity. They explore the evolving definitions of manhood, balancing vulnerability with traditional strength. The conversation dives into the importance of emotional connections among men and the need to challenge societal norms. They emphasize the significance of building community to combat isolation and redefine male friendships through meaningful, supportive interactions.
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Modern Masculinity Defined
- Masculinity today means decisiveness, playing to win, and living without apologies for historical systems.
- Men should boldly act and embody their nature without feeling guilty for the past.
Masculinity and Femininity Origins
- Masculinity and femininity are culturally constructed traits linked to gender but can overlap.
- These traits evolved from hunter-gatherer roles where men hunted and women gathered, shaping social norms.
Patriarchy Harms Men Too
- Patriarchy harms men by boxing them into provider roles and toxic expectations.
- Addressing gender issues helps both men and women live better lives.
