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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

65: Why Have We Made Dating So Complicated?

Nov 2, 2020
07:49
Snipd AI
In this episode, Matthew Hussey discusses the spooky dating behaviors of haunting and zombying. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing these behaviors and offers practical advice on how to handle them. He also explores the concepts of ghosting and imbalanced investment in relationships, providing useful habits to improve your love life.
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Quick takeaways

  • Closure should come from within, recognizing disinterest as a form of closure.
  • Invest in someone based on how much they invest in you, rather than fixating on how much you like them.

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The Difference between Attention and True Investment

The podcast discusses the difference between attention and true investment in dating. It highlights the issue of ghosting, where someone disappears without any explanation, leaving the other person confused and seeking closure. However, the speaker suggests that closure should come from within and that disinterest is a form of closure. The podcast also addresses the concepts of haunting and zombying, which involve a decrease in communication and then a sudden return. It emphasizes the importance of recognizing these actions for what they are – not true investment, but rather fleeting attention.

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