Raising Good Humans What Temperament Really Is—and Why It Matters for Parenting w/ Dr. Koraly Pérez-Edgar
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Sep 5, 2025 Dr. Koraly Pérez-Edgar, a developmental psychologist and expert in temperament, discusses the nuances of childhood temperament and its significance for parenting. She explains how different temperaments, like shyness and social anxiety, shape children's experiences and interactions. Highlighting the biological and environmental factors that influence temperament, she advocates for supportive parenting strategies tailored to each child's unique traits. The conversation also touches on the emotional synchrony between parents and children and its vital role in fostering resilience.
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Temperament Is Biologically Rooted But Not Fixed
- Temperament is the biological basis of personality that appears early and is relatively stable across contexts.
- It reflects reactivity patterns in brain, hormones, and body but is not genetically deterministic.
Shyness Is A Tendency, Not A Destiny
- Shyness is a tendency to withdraw when faced with novelty, not a permanent sentence of social impairment.
- Parents, teachers, and peers shape whether that tendency leads to engagement or persistent withdrawal.
Offer Practical Scaffolds For Anxious Tasks
- Validate the child's worry and offer practical scaffolds like notes, practice, or alternate rehearsal opportunities.
- Step back after suggesting options so the child can attempt the challenge independently.
