STOP Procrastinating in Business! | Mel Robbins | Podcast series / Marketing
Apr 9, 2019
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Mel Robbins, a motivational speaker and author, joins Bryan Elliott Behind the Brand to discuss the power of the five second rule to overcome self-doubt and take action. They also explore the concept of self-monitoring and emotional intelligence in personal development.
The five-second rule interrupts self-doubt and empowers individuals to take action despite fear or discomfort.
Self-monitoring and emotional intelligence are essential for personal growth, focusing on what matters, and making choices aligned with values and goals.
Deep dives
Overcoming Financial Turmoil and Despair
The podcast episode shares the personal story of Mel Robbins, a best-selling author, who faced financial turmoil in 2008. Despite appearing successful externally, Robbins and her husband were on the verge of bankruptcy with liens on their house and their restaurant business failing. Robbins emphasizes the feeling of despair and the struggle of hitting rock bottom. However, she highlights the power of a single five-second decision that changed her life. This decision led her to invent the five-second rule, which interrupts self-doubt and empowers individuals to take action despite fear or discomfort.
The Five-Second Rule and Neurological Power
Robbins explains the five-second rule as a simple technique to beat self-doubt and resistance by counting down from five to one, similar to a rocket launch countdown. This tool gained significant significance in Robbins' life as she used it not only to get out of bed but also to face other challenges throughout the day. By interrupting the habit of talking oneself out of taking action, the five-second rule activates the part of the brain associated with change and pushes individuals to act in line with their values and desires, regardless of how they feel.
The Role of Self-Monitoring and Emotional Intelligence
Robbins discusses the importance of self-monitoring and emotional intelligence in personal growth. She highlights that true change comes down to the ability to focus on what matters and have control over thoughts and actions. Robbins argues that while everyone waits to be picked or for the right circumstances, the key lies in recognizing five-second windows that call for action. She encourages disregarding feelings and instead aligning choices with values and goals. By cultivating self-awareness and using tools like the five-second rule, individuals can push past comfort zones and make decisions that lead to personal growth and success.
The Secret to Self-Motivation and maybe one of the best talks ever...Mel Robbins says it only takes 5 seconds to change your life. In her now famous TED talk that's been viewed millions of times, Robbins breaks down how simple and effective this simple system can be with Bryan Elliott Behind the Brand.
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