Crucifying Perfection to Lead Through Loss with Tod Bolsinger

What if your desire to “get it right” is the very thing preventing you from doing what God wants to do through you? We often cling to perfection because we fear loss. However, transformation and leading through change always demand it.

In this episode of The Disrupters podcast, host Nicole Martin welcomes Tod Bolsinger, leadership expert, professor, and author of the new Practicing Change Series, as well as Canoeing the Mountains and Tempered Resilience. Tod is the founder of AE Sloan Leadership and serves as executive director of the DePree Center Church Leadership Institute. With decades of pastoral and consulting experience, he brings powerful wisdom on navigating real transformation in leadership, especially when the path forward is unclear, uncomfortable, and costly.

In this engaging conversation, Tod challenges the myth of lossless leadership and invites us into the real work of adaptive change. He confronts the idol of perfectionism in leadership, showing how anxiety, ego, and the pressure to always know what to do frequently get in the way of real growth. He challenges Christians to stop expecting that following Jesus will be a comfortable, lossless process. Tod also shares how spiritual resilience is formed, not found, and how keeping a Jesus-centered view of organizational leadership requires pursuing the mission, never the brand. 

When we stop trying to control the outcome and instead join hands with others, we begin to move forward one faithful, imperfect step at a time. Because the goal isn’t about looking like you’ve got it all together. It’s about trusting God enough to lose what’s safe, so something eternal can rise in its place.

Tune in now to discover what you need to lay down to lead with courage, clarity, and Christ at the center of everything.

This episode highlights the following themes:

• Crucifying perfection and embracing transformation
• Leading through loss and adaptive change
• Holding mission and identity above brand and image

Links from the episode:

• Learn more about Tod Bolsinger
• Read Tod Bolsinger’s new series: Practicing Change
• Read Tod Bolsinger’s books: Canoeing the Mountains and Tempered Resilience
• Learn more about Nicole Martin
• Read Nicole Martin’s book: Nailing It
• Read the transcript here

Credits:

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✅Producers: Jack Reece and Travis Albritton

✅Executive Producer: Helen Lee

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✅Production Assistant: Christine Pelliccio Melo

✅Podcast Art: Kate Lillard

✅Theme Song: "Something Else" by Nu Alkemi$t

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