The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

Ep. 156: Oppositional And Defiant Behavior- Part 1

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Oct 10, 2023
Discover how oppositional behavior in children often stems from feelings of unsafety. Explore the link between a child's nervous system and their actions, highlighting that these behaviors can indeed make sense. The focus shifts from merely changing behavior to fostering connection and safety. Understand that the label of Oppositional Defiant Disorder is just a starting point; staying curious about underlying causes is essential for effective treatment. Join the conversation on creating a nurturing environment for healing and regulation.
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Oppositional Behavior and Protection Mode

  • Oppositional behavior stems from a nervous system in protection mode.
  • It indicates more perceived danger than safety cues.
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When Opposition is Good

  • Oppositional behavior can be a healthy response to genuine danger.
  • It's also crucial when facing untrustworthy individuals or requests against one's values.
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Normal Opposition

  • Opposition is a normal human response to unwanted tasks or unmet desires.
  • Shifting from rest requires energy, amplified by motivation or lack thereof.
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