The School of Greatness Family Therapist: The #1 Sign You Were Raised by Narcissistic Parents
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Mar 19, 2025 
In a thought-provoking conversation, Jerry Wise, a seasoned life and relationship counselor with 45 years of experience, sheds light on the lasting impact of being raised by narcissistic parents. He eloquently discusses the 'family trance' that shapes our identities, revealing how unresolved issues can ripple into the next generation. Listeners learn about self-differentiation, empowering strategies to reclaim their authentic selves, and the hope that it's never too late to rewrite their childhood narratives and heal from emotional dysfunction.
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Malignant Normalcy
- Many individuals are unaware of their family's dysfunction because it has been normalized.
- This "malignant normalcy" can lead to the acceptance of abusive or dysfunctional patterns in adult relationships.
Self-Differentiation vs. Physical Separation
- Focus on self-differentiation, an emotional maturity state, rather than just physical separation.
- Strive to develop the maturity and self-respect you would have if you'd grown up in a healthy family.
The Fantasy of Parental Approval
- Adult children from dysfunctional families often hold onto the fantasy of receiving parental love and acceptance.
- This fantasy can hinder personal growth and prevent individuals from moving forward.
