

Is P*rn Ruining Your S*x Life? ft. Alex Grendi
11 snips Jun 16, 2025
In this conversation, Alex Grendi, a sex coach specializing in men's sexual health, shares his journey overcoming performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction. He tackles societal pressures and the unrealistic benchmarks set by media and pornography. Alex emphasizes the significant impact of hidden stress on intimacy and relationships. He advocates for open dialogue about male intimacy, urging men to break free from shame and express their needs. This candid discussion aims to demystify the complexities of male intimacy and promote healthier connections.
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Alex Grendi's Performance Anxiety Story
- Alex Grendi shared his lifelong struggle with performance anxiety starting before he was sexually active.
- He often used marijuana or alcohol to manage insecurities and mask performance fears early on.
Porn Distorts Sexual Expectations
- The average intercourse time is about five and a half minutes, but many want longer for satisfaction.
- Porn distorts realistic expectations, making men feel pressured to last unrealistically long.
Start With Nervous System Regulation
- Start with nervous system regulation to reduce stress and improve sexual response.
- Practice self-pleasuring and learn your own arousal to build confidence before involving a partner.