Good Inside with Dr. Becky

Navigating the Parent-Grandparent Dynamic

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Sep 2, 2025
In a heartfelt discussion geared toward Grandparents Day, the podcast delves into the intricate dynamics between parents and grandparents. It addresses the emotional challenges faced by both sides, highlighting the importance of effective communication. Listeners learn how to navigate in-law relationships while balancing differing parenting styles. The conversation also emphasizes the need for self-reflection as parents care for their aging relatives, ensuring children understand family complexities while nurturing trust.
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INSIGHT

Old Wounds Shape New Reactions

  • Childhood emotional wounds stay in the body and shape adult reactions to parents and grandparents.
  • Feeling resentful when a parent is kind to your child signals you still believe you deserve emotional support.
ADVICE

Do Emotional Work Before Repair Conversations

  • Acknowledge, validate, and permit your feelings before deciding whether to confront a parent.
  • Only have repair conversations when you own the story and can tolerate any response from your parent.
ADVICE

Pick Battles And Approach As Teammates

  • Consider doing nothing when grandparents break minor parenting rules; pick your battles intentionally.
  • Choose action only for non-negotiables and approach those talks as teammates, not enemies.
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