The podcast discusses the challenges of establishing independent play with a 3-month-old baby, the importance of encouraging independent play for baby's development, exploring the baby's attempts to sit up independently, and promoting independent play for babies at daycare.
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Establishing independent play with infants involves noticing when the child is comfortable, responding immediately to their discomfort, and fostering a positive experience for independent play through empathy and support.
Creating a predictable routine, communicating with the child, responding calmly to their needs, offering choices, and avoiding abrupt departures are essential for helping the child feel secure and at ease during independent play.
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Establishing Independent Play
Establishing independent play with infants is a gradual process that begins by noticing when the child is comfortable being engaged in their own self-directed activity. Placing the child down gently and slowly on their back in a play area allows them freedom of movement and a comfortable position. It is important to respond immediately if the child expresses discomfort, but instead of swooping them up, respond verbally and attune to their needs. This respectful and empathetic approach encourages the child to communicate and feel supported, fostering a positive experience for independent play.
Assisting Transition to Independent Play
Creating a predictable routine with specific times for independent play helps the child feel comfortable and secure. Communicating with the child before placing them in the play area, using slow and gentle movements, and providing attention and closeness during the initial stages of independent play are essential. Responding to the child's communication, whether it's discomfort or tiredness, verbally and calmly, helps build trust and allows for effective problem-solving. Offering choices and engaging in conversation with the child, while avoiding abrupt departures, supports the child's autonomy and helps them feel at ease during independent play.
Addressing Tummy Time and Overstimulation
Magda Gerber's approach suggests waiting until babies can move into the tummy time position themselves to avoid discomfort and strain on their necks. Placing babies under activity gyms that may cause overstimulation or feelings of being trapped can be overwhelming and not conducive to independent play. Baby wearing can limit the child's opportunity for self-directed play and should be balanced with providing a chance for babies to move and explore their surroundings. Assisting the child in adapting to daycare can be achieved by implementing similar strategies used at home, ensuring the child feels comfortable and supported in their transition.
A working mom writes that her 3-month-old is not happy when left on the floor to play by himself. He quickly begins “screaming and crying to be saved,” and the situation is causing problems both at home and at the child’s daycare.
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