

130: Red Flags & Green Flags: How to Know If They're Serious About You With Francesca Tighinean
32 snips Mar 21, 2025
In this intriguing discussion, Francesca Tighinean, a coach with a psychology background, helps listeners navigate the complexities of modern romance. She delves into critical topics like love bombing and future faking, teaching how to spot emotional red and green flags through body language and behavior. With personal anecdotes, she stresses the importance of aligning actions with words, revealing the subtle cues that indicate genuine interest. Tune in for valuable insights that empower you to date with clarity and confidence!
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Overlooking Love Bombing
- Sabrina Zohar often overlooked love bombing early in dating, seeing high initial interest as positive.
- She recalls a date where a man was overly affectionate and future-faked, only to change completely afterward.
Why We Struggle with Truth
- People struggle to see the truth in dating because they crave validation and love.
- Love bombing creates a quick, unhealthy emotional bond, often used for manipulation.
Quantify Qualities
- To differentiate between what you see and want, quantify the other person's qualities.
- Ask for specific examples of thoughtfulness or other positive traits to avoid projections.