How To Fail With Elizabeth Day Suzi Ruffell - ‘I didn’t know I was gay until I saw Titanic’
Jul 10, 2025
Comedian Suzi Ruffell, known for her sellout runs at the Edinburgh Fringe and appearances on Live at the Apollo, shares her journey of self-discovery. She reveals how iconic films like Titanic influenced her understanding of her sexuality. As she discusses the intersection of comedy and identity, Suzi reflects on the pressures of the stand-up scene, her experiences with anxiety, and the importance of genuine connections in her life. With humor and candor, she encourages embracing authenticity and individuality.
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Titanic Sparked Sexual Awakening
- Suzi Ruffell discovered she was gay after watching "Titanic" seven times at age 12.
- Kate Winslet's character empowered her understanding of her sexuality and identity.
Fitting In and Defense Mechanism
- Suzi struggled to fit in due to her sexuality and dyslexia, using humor as a defense.
- She purposely avoided friendships to hide her true self and vulnerability.
Facing Homophobic Heckles Early
- Suzi endured homophobic heckles during early stand-up, including being told "I can fix you."
- She learned to confront hecklers but felt hurt as she just wanted to share her stories.
