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Bare Marriage

Episode 205: Do Complementarian Men Make the Best Husbands? A response to Nancy Pearcey

Sep 14, 2023
The podcast discusses the claim that complementarian men make the best husbands. They examine the impact of religiosity on conservative Christian men, measuring the effects of conservative beliefs on marriages, and the negative consequences of practicing complementarianism. They also compare Canadian and American universities, emphasize the importance of proper academic research and citing credible sources, and critique outdated research and misrepresentation.
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Quick takeaways

  • Belief in male authority in complementarian marriages often does not align with actual egalitarian dynamics in practice.
  • Rose-colored glasses in complementarian marriages can lead to skewed perceptions of marital satisfaction.

Deep dives

Beliefs and actions in complementarian marriages

Complementarian marriages often show a discrepancy between beliefs and actions. While some complementarian couples claim to believe in male headship and leadership, in practice they often exhibit egalitarian dynamics. This suggests that the belief in male authority may be more of an identity marker than an actual practice. The presence of this symbolic traditionalism can be seen as a way for complementarian couples to differentiate themselves from others and maintain a cultural marker. However, it is problematic to claim that complementarian men do better when the majority of those who identify as complementarians do not actually act in line with the stated beliefs. Research shows that unilateral decision-making and hierarchical dynamics have negative effects on marital satisfaction and sexual outcomes. It is important to consider the impact of actions, rather than just beliefs, when assessing the success of complementarian marriages.

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