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Why Avoiding Conflict is Creating Conflict – Jayson Gaddis (Getting to Zero, The Relationship School)

The New Man

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You Know, You're a Great Dancer, You Know?

i think what we're really talking about here is owning the impact. And so if i'm dancing with my partner, and she's got on these amazing heels, and she keeps stepping on my freak and toe and it hurts, you know, i can hold that resentment in pain and not want to tell her,. Then blow up and be like, damn it, stop. You're a terrible dancer. And then she's hurt and withdraws and goes away, or she attacks back. Whereas if i just say, h you may not be aware, but you're stepping on my toe, and it hurts. And i hear that, that just sharing the impact. T doesn't mean i

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