No one knows what you said the first two times. But we have a parable, and it goes like this: There are two wolves inside of us that are always at battle. One is a good wolf, which represents things like kindness and bravery and love. And the otheris a bad wolf, which represent things like greed and hatred and fear. So i'd like to start off by asking you what that parable means to you in your life and in the work that you do. In some ways, it strikes me because or maybe i just mean, i don't know that i agree with it.
Oliver Burkeman is a British journalist and writer based in New York. He is well known not only for his amazing books, but he also wrote a popular weekly column on psychology called “This Column will Change Your Life” which was printed weekly between 2006 and 2020.
Oliver joins Eric for a third time on the show, and in this episode, they discuss many things, including his new book, “Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals”
But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you!
Oliver Burkeman and I Discuss Time Management for Mortals and …
- His book, “Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals”
- How we invest more energy and focus on trying to escape certain feelings
- Finitude and understanding that life is finite
- Time and how we relate to it as something we have and use
- The idea that we are time rather than we have time
- Accepting the truth of your finitude allows you to live more in the present
- Confusing meaningful with extraordinary
- Cosmic insignificance therapy suggests that we reexamine the threshold of what makes a meaningful life
- Our tendency to want to define and measure what is meaningful in life
- How the pursuit of using time well can lead us to live in the future rather than being present
- Asking ourselves if something is expanding or contracting to us
- The modern attention economy and being aware if we are choosing where our attention goes
- How the things that matter most to us can provoke unpleasant emotions that lead to seeking distractions
- The problem isn’t how things are, but rather how we think they should be
- Trying too hard to be present in the moment
- Accepting the impossibility of complete control
Oliver Burkeman Links:
Oliver’s Website
Twitter
Oliver’s Posts
Calm App: The app designed to help you ease stress and get the best sleep of your life through meditations and sleep stories. Join the 85 million people around the world who use Calm to get better sleep. Get 40% off a Calm Premium Subscription (a limited time offer!) by going to www.calm.com/wolf
If you enjoyed this conversation with Oliver Burkeman, you might also enjoy these other episodes:
Oliver Burkeman on Modern Time Management (2019)
Oliver Burkeman (2014)
Living Between Worlds with James Hollis
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
