i typically work with very practical minded, typically high achieving people. And it's like you don't have to just throw out dating. You can get better at learning how to create report connection and not take things personally. Human beings will adapt to these things that we currently optimize for. But what matters are certain things like empathy, kindness, ability to work through conflict,. Ability to make a tough life decisions. Together, those are the things that it will actually impact your basine of happiness.