All human beings share the same two primary fears. That they are not enough and they won't feel loved. Primary fears are triggered anytime you feel like you're not being seen as significant enough or you fear the loss of love. How to create an extraordinary relationship? Learn to love yourself. Select the qualities you need in a relationship. Relationships last when both people have the same or complementary nature. Follow the examples set by business leaders and consider three things in elevating a potential relationship.