The Basic Building Block Is Not the Individual

'The basic building block is not the individual. It's the family, or it's the group of people who've come together to do a certain task,' she says. 'My life kind of changed when i realize that people who i had a lot of conflict with in my life triggered me, in a way, but i triggered them.' She adds: 'It was justa lens of seeing the world and seeing relationships that i didn't have before - which was incredibly useful for me'