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How to Bring Relational Self-Awareness to a First Date

Reimagining Love

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How to Direct Your Attention on a First Date

Dating is an arrow that goes in both directions. If your attention gets locked in either of those places, you are robbing yourself of the opportunity for your attention to go in this third direction. It's really helpful on a first date to direct your attention in a relational way. Rather than focusing on you, rather than focusing on them, direct your attention to the space between you and your partner.

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