Consent and Choice - Is This Really What You Like?

Pleasure is something we recalibrate towards. And i hear in that kind of an awareness oflike, how resourced am i in this moment? And a permission to kind of pace ourselves through this. I'm so much of this is pulled from porn, and i am totally pro porn, but i'm also pro knowing that it's not sex education or what most sex looks like. So again, if we're feeling something that's even just culturally prescribed, which to me feels a little bit culturally coercive, then we just need to take a step back," she says.