Avoiding Conflict and Struggling Only for Harmony

If you grew up seeing repeated disharmony and never saw or experienced repair, you will also likely struggle with secure attachment. Without learning repair, you're generally going to have one of these responses to disharmony. You'll feel panicked and desperate to fix things right away. Maybe you'll beat yourself up or maybe you'll blame and berate the other person. Rio avoids difficult conversations that might upset Blake because repair is not something that Rio has a lot of experience with.