How to Separate and Not Manipulate Vulnerability

Ask for help when I'm in a crisis accept the help etc. How do I separate and not manipulate the two of them? Where is the line when asking and accepting help becomes co-dependent? Jake: It all depends on what it is that you need help with but vulnerability is a huge thing people look at vulnerability as weakness. When you are vulnerable to others you know you really give them a chance to offer their best self to you.